I have only been in one relationship....I have made-made out with several people in my drunken escapades, even hooked up with a few. But I have only really dated one person. What is wrong with me?????
A friend sent me this link today:
Why the smartest people have the toughest time dating
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dr-alex-benzer/why-the-smartest-people-h_b_169939.html
I don't think of myself as being in the "smartest people" category, but there has to be some reason why I am un-datable.....I am just so tired of being alone...
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I was undatable for 18 years. Career first, sex second, dating dead last.
ReplyDeleteIt gets easier with time :)
God I hope so!
ReplyDeletecould it be a personal image that you're projecting to people? what I mean is, if you see yourself as "undateable" or uninteresting, unattractive, etc..maybe you are giving that impression to people unconsciously... can I just say that from personal experience, that there is NOTHING sexier or more attractive than someone who is self confident and positive. It's like a friggin magnet. It's all about how you present yourself..
ReplyDeleteI made myself undateable until right about now. Too much moving around with all the schooling. I tried a few times and had good luck with personals. I viewed it more as pre-screening - if you don't want to date a smoker, for example, you just keep them out of your searches.
ReplyDeleteIn any case, according to Jerry Seinfeld, 95% of the population is undateable anyway :)
Kimber, I know I have an image problem...but I am working on it! My friends tell me the same thing all the time. I just feel like I have made good progress and still having problems.
ReplyDeleteA., I am probably guilty of making myself undateable too. I like being able to do what I want to do when I want to do it!
So i guess I am not so clueles...I guess I just felt like I was so much more dysfuntional than everyone else...