Thursday, April 23, 2009

What a day...continued

Just after my post yesterday my roommate called. She was at the home and had heard several gunshots. She looked outside and the police cars were flooding in.

Just a little back ground. I live in the city. My neighborhood is one that 10 years ago people avoided like the plague because just driving through meant you were putting your life in danger. It is full of beautiful houses that are slowly being renovated and thus I found a gorgeous house for a VERY low price. AND I can walk or ride my bike to campus

For the most part, my neighbors are great. Some are new to the hood, like myself, and others have been there for 50 years. Everyone is friendly and looks out for each other. There are a few that are not such upstanding citizens though.

One of said citizens was home yesterday afternoon and spotted someone trying to break into his girlfriends car. While my reaction would be to call the police, he did not take such action. Instead he got his gun, chased the would be robber down, and shot him 6 times. He ended up dying at the hospital a little while later. Police arrested the shooter.

This took place less than a block from my house. My roommate called me as soon as she knew it was gunshots that she heard. I had ridden my bike to school and she didn't want me riding through the neighbor hood if there was a shooter on the loose. At the time we had no clue what happened except that there were gunshots and about 15 police cruisers. I have such a thoughtful roommate! She came and picked me up!

This is not typical of our area, but about 5 or 6 blocks north of me is where all of the action usually takes place. I guess it spills over every now and then.

I hate to pass judgement without knowing all of the details, but a stray bullet could have injured an innocent bystander! There were lots of people in their homes who witnessed the shooting. One reported a bullet had gone through their window. I understand how enraging it can be when someone violates your property, but does is warrant you to shoot at will? The 1st pricinct is two blocks away, a cop could have been there in less than a minute. As they were when you opened fire.

Anyhow, on happier note. I finally came out yesterday to a very close friend of mine that lives in another state. I wrote her a two page letter because I had hidden alot from her and felt the need to explain myself a bit. She called me after she read the email last night, but I was at a concert.

The message went something like this. "You best be doing something very important and not avoiding my phone call. I can't beleive you never told me any of that stuff you whore. You know that none of it matters and I love you anyways. Call me back asap!"

I would say that is a pretty good outcome. I feel a huge sense of relief but I know she is going to have alot more questions that are going to be hard for me to answer. Not looking forward to that, but the worst is over!

10 comments:

  1. I live in a similar neighborhood. I think our last drug dealer is gone...moved two blocks south. You're much kinder that I am - I launch into an extremely judgmental tirade when there is an open shooting.

    What a sweet friend! I'd hold onto that one :)

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  2. Blimey, you make me feel like I lead a very sheltered life, even though I live in London shooting is still relatively rare over here. I am not sure how I would have reacted.

    Good news on the phone call front, just remember the anticipation in this situation is often much worse than the reality, you'll be fine I am sure.

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  3. Shit happens in any type of neighborhood, it was sweet of your roomie to be concerned with your safety.

    And Squirt, you've done good. There were reasons why you couldn't tell your best sooner. Be honest with her which I'm sure you will be, the hard part is over. I'm proud of you!

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  4. I live in a nice neighborhood, but it isn't without its problems, like bne's. With the current economy I would expect to see more bullshit like this.

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  5. Our citys come a loooong way. We no longer top the murder list anymore. I'm glad your timing was good and your roommate came to get you. I heard it on the news and understand the guys anger but not how he went so far overboard. I'm glad no one else got hurt.

    And Im so glad your friend respoded as I would hope she would. The "chat" you have will be harder for you than her. It is awesome to have real friends though so I'm sure she'll understand. :)

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  6. we live right up the hill from one of the more seedy parts of our town, somehow it always creeps uphill every once in awhile. I try not to worry about it, but seriously even in the more upscale neighborhoods, the crime rate is terrible. no one wants to break in to a poor person's house..lol

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  7. Hmmm not sure if my last comment went thru.
    Kudos on telling your bestie! My bff's response was so similar!
    The questions to come can be tough. But just be insanely honest. You can do it!

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  8. I work in an area of town much like you described. My clients all live with it daily. I like you am fearful of the innocent in the world getting harmed by the intentionally or in some case unintentional choices about guns and self defense. Such a fine line and when someone chooses to use a gun for any reason there are often poor outcomes ... a car isn't worth a life...

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  9. Be careful. Being a lover of old neighborhoods -- I'm glad people like you still will make their home there.

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  10. Glad your friend responded well. Don't fret over the details and the questions she will bring, be glad she loves you still anyway. Because we all know that anyone who wouldn't doesn't deserve to have friends.

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